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“I’m a private person so I was unsure about coming out publicly. "For me it was my sexuality, for others it could be stuff at home, or studies or whatever. It’s hard to perform at your best when you are carrying something, anything, and that’s the same for all the lads. But I just remember the room erupting! They were all delighted for me and it was immediately a weight off my shoulders. "My friends have been unbelievable in helping me to accept that I am gay and to help me embrace that part of my life now. Some felt sorry that I couldn’t discuss it sooner but again, I had to get to that point myself. “Everyone was happy that I could tell them and they could be there for me. We spend so much time together, and I now feel very comfortable in this environment being myself. “Leinster Rugby is built on ‘brotherhood’ and it’s important that we can be open and honest with each other. But I felt I wasn’t being true to myself. "In many other professions you may not feel the need to discuss your sexuality. "Those conversations continued as I became more comfortable and accepting of myself," he said. McCarthy said that it was around this time this year that he came out to close friends, who were very supportive. “We just want what’s best for Nick but he’s going to be an amazing role model, we hope, to lots of young people out there.”
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“He will be an amazing role model to people because he’s a great person in the group. "So doing what’s in your heart, I guess, so we are pleased that Nick has been able to come out with this news so he can start being more comfortable just being himself.”Ĭullen added: “Nick has definitely had a battle going on in the back of his mind, and I’m sure there are other young people going through something similar. “To be at your best you need to make sure you are working hard but also it’s about being yourself and it’s important you’re not battling against being yourself. "We want to make sure that all our guys are able to maximise their ability and be able to bring all of themselves to Leinster Rugby while they are here. “Nick is a brilliant individual and we are supportive of him. “The main thing when I talked to him first, was that it was great that he was able to talk openly to us," said the Blues supremo. “By speaking openly about his sexuality, Nick will be a role model for others and we couldn't be prouder of him.”Ĭullen, meanwhile, believes that McCarthy can be a role model for others. “We talk about looking after our brothers a lot in here and the last few months has been about that, looking out for Nick. Prior to leaving Dublin for Ireland's summer tour of New Zealand, Sexton commented: “I've known Nick since his time in the academy so to hear him talk to us so openly about his struggles has been tough but we are now just delighted for Nick and that he can be himself. Leinster's Nick McCarthy with Peter Robb of Connacht in the last meeting of the sides in December at the RDS (Image: ©INPHO/Dan Sheridan) My parents, my sister, grandparents and wider family, are totally accepting of me and I’m very thankful for their support.” "I’m lucky to have grown up in a loving environment. I have realised that anyone who cares about you, just wants you to be happy. “My experience since coming out though has been entirely positive. I have great friends in rugby but I didn’t know how they would take it. “I needed to accept being gay myself before I could address it with others.
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“It’s not really ‘a thing’, it’s not common for a male athlete to come out in sport, never mind professional rugby, and it’s probably something that I didn’t want to believe or accept myself either. "They helped and guided me over the months that followed so that I felt more comfortable to come out to the group. “But, I spoke to Leo and Stuart last November and the support that I got from them straight away was unbelievable. “It affected me so much that I agonised over my future and contemplated walking away from rugby altogether because I just didn’t think I could come out while playing rugby. I struggled with coming out for a while and it was starting to impact on me and my happiness so it was the right decision. “I came out to my teammates in January and I was obviously pretty nervous about doing so,” McCarthy told Leinster's website. McCarthy, 27, rejoined Leinster from Munster last summer after two years with the Reds. The province's head coach Cullen and skipper Johnny Sexton have praised McCarthy for his decision to speak publicly for the first time about his sexuality. McCarthy informed Leo Cullen and Stuart Lancaster last November, and his team-mates in January. Leinster scrum-half Nick McCarthy has publicly come out as gay, revealing that he thought he would have to quit rugby before deciding to tell his coaches and colleagues instead.